Sunday, April 26, 2009
Friday, April 17, 2009
More Than a Pan of Brownies
Before Kori’s lesson on Hospitality, I had a very skewed idea of what it was. Here is a little insight into my erroneous thoughts: “A hostess welcomes guests at her door and makes them feel comfortable and at ease. It is her job to prepare snacks and entertainment for any group and see that everyone in her home’s needs are met. If the guest is staying overnight, then the hostess makes sure their room is ready and their breakfast is to their satisfaction in the morning. A hostess is loved and welcoming.”
This sounds like a very rosy picture of a hostess, but it is essentially lacking. My picture of a hostess grossly ignored the spiritual needs that are met through hosting guests and who those guest should be. Tuesday night was an eye-opening experience from which I gathered much knowledge, which revolutionized my view of a hostess.
When I was thinking the lesson over this morning, I began to recall some Old Testament characters who were excellent examples of hostesses, well actually hosts. (Interestingly enough, our modern society all but exempts men from the role of being a host.) The two characters I thought of were Abraham and Lot.
Abraham was a man of the Old Testament, whom Jesus’ lineage traces back to. Please read Genesis 18:1-8. Notice how he responds to the guest. Referencing Matthew 25: 40: “The King will reply, 'I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.” Do you see the absolute importance of treating all guest with love? The actions of Abraham directly correlate with Kori’s key emphasis in her lesson on hostessing: receive people who are strangers, keep them as guests and send them off as friends. Meeting strangers with the heart of Christ rather than cold indifference is as if the same as honoring the Lord. I have spent far too long being hesitant of those I don’t know or remaining only in the company of those I do. Abraham is an excellent example of what a host is and how we are to treat those who God has sent into our lives .
Abraham’s nephew Lot also demonstrated hospitality. He was in the most sinful city, Sodom. To fully understand the sacrifices Lot made made for his two guest, please turn to Genesis 19. We first notice that Lot found the guest at the city gate and knowing this was not a safe place for them, offered them stay in his own home. There, he protected them, and they protected him. The two men were angels sent for Lot’s protection. Every guest God sends to your home or places in your path is there for a purpose. It glorified God when Lot accepted the two angels into his home, we too should seek to bring our Lord praise.
Looking over these two examples, it becomes clear that being a hostess is much more than the world tells us. Making a divine pan of brownies is not the sum of being a gracious hostess. True hostessing uses such a small task to exalt a gracious and divine Lord. Align your heart to God’s will, that you may embrace those who He sets in your path with the warmth of his love and the comfort of his embrace. Truly this is the sum of being a hostess in the service of the Lord.
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